મંગળવાર, 31 જુલાઈ, 2018

Where do birds go to die?

*Where do birds go to die?*
by Naresh Sadhwani

Are the Flying free birds a Crown Creation of nature? Where do birds go to die?

Strange questions, isn't it, but the answers are even stranger, or probably there is no answer at all.

One fine morning, seated at my favorite tea spot, overlooking the evergreen banyan tree against the background of the pleasantly warm early morning sun, watching my avian friends, a mix of parakeets, sparrows and Mark Twain’s favorite friends the Indian crows. All of them permanent occupants of this peaceful tree colony; the following thought just popped into my head. I have been watching my feathered friends, chirping, cooing and quarreling o’ so sweetly ever so often *but I have never seen any one of them ever lying dead either under that tree or anywhere in the vicinity or our residential colony or surprisingly even all over the world.*

The world is populated with flocks of birds, but strangely, one never sees bodies of dead birds lying around. Rarely one does see bird remains left behind by a careless cat or a pigeon killed in flight by the sharp kite string during the makar sankrat kite festival. But, lying around dead from a natural cause? Never! So do birds live forever? When no answer comes to mind, what does one do? Well for many unanswered questions one does ask Google! That’s exactly what I did. *Guess what? Google had no logical answer!*

To find the answer to my question, I browsed bird watching sites skimmed through ornithology resources but with no luck; just vague and funny answers. Then I came across a very interesting article on ‘Dying Pattern of birds” and cited below was a controversial theory by Late Cork Bishop Cornelius Lucey that begins with the Question: “Where do birds go to die?” Bishop challenged anyone to produce evidence of a bird that had died from a natural cause. Bishop Lucey distinguished death from natural causes and death by predator, or death through car accident. Death through accidental or deliberate means resulted in mangled bodies we all have seen, but it is a fact, dead birds are so difficult to locate that scientists use birders to help track population in order to estimate number of annual avian deaths. The Bishop, who had an in-depth knowledge of the life-patterns of bees, conducted the study of birds, with the same gusto. In the case of bees, the Bishop explained that bees died, by rising, into the “upper air’, and there they literally were destroyed through a natural disintegration process.

After the study of birds he concluded that as birds had an inner sensory device, which told them when to migrate and like the bees they too had an inner sensory device which told them when it was time to die, or when their life cycle was complete. On the premonition of death, they too like the bees rise up higher and higher till they disintegrate in the upper air. This unpublished theory is the closest answer to my query. This triggers the following thought: If we go by the Bishop’s hypothesis on the dying pattern of birds for which as of date there is no counter solid scientific theory, then it would not be out of place to conclude that birds are at a higher plane than humans since the birds actually KNOW when they are going to die, something that even the so-called evolved, aware and intelligent human race does not know! That when a bird knows that it has lived enough, seen enough, it can happily leave its body at will by flying high-up and just disintegrating; no age related aches, pains of suffering.

Wow! Our feathered friends seem to be more evolved than humans. They live that freedom we all would die for; freedom to go where they want, when they want, cross all borders sans passport, the power to detach themselves from the young ones as soon as they are ready to take their own course and now it seems they know when they will die and where to die. Real cool! They can attain moksha at will.

*Thereby lingers the thought: Is Man, the self-proclaimed most evolved living being really at the apex of evolution pyramid?*
or
_please tell me where do the birds go to die._

સોમવાર, 30 જુલાઈ, 2018

Real happiness

Got a real nice story. After reading, made me to think deeply. So be you.
What is your salary ? Are you Happy with it?

I am 29 , My Salary is 14 Lakhs PA , after Tax deductio chhens I get 95K monthly , live in Chennai and i am happy with it

Reasons below:

>I didn’t buy a HOME worth 60 or 70 Lakhs , i am not a big fan of it by paying EMI around 35K per month & being in tension all the time and losing my daily happiness.

> Instead i pay 10K as rent for a Home which is worth 60L, which is also near to my office reducung my commute time, back-pain , traffic tension. Every-time i change my office i can switch my home as well, this will not happen with an Own house. Some of my colleagues are travelling 2 hours morning and evening as they are coming from their own house and they explain how irritating it is to travel 40 KM in the Chennai traffic and Hot weather.

> People who are commuting more than 90 minutes for work are not able to concentrate in their Work and miss good projects and they tend to grab a poor project which is near to them.  if u live in rental you can be flexible in timings , and can spend quality time with your family.

> 20 K in Mutual Funds which gives more returns than owning an apartment.

> 25 K for House hold expenses like Petrol, EB, Milk, TV , Internet ,Grocery , Vegetables, Maid, Meat & ETC

> 6 K in gold purchase, every month investing in the scheme for my Wife (I don’t like it but what to do  when you are married :) ).

> 2K to my single Grandma who lives in my Hometown village.

> 3K for Kid school expenses.

> 14 K is for eating out, shopping, outing.

> Remaining 15 K is my savings, any last minute surprises, Hospital bills, Family functions etc etc.

I don’t own a credit card, i don’t buy things with EMI(its a trap),i don’t have any loans. I will not have month end problems and i will not wait for my salary to be credited to buy any urgent things, i will spend from last month's savings.

I have a 125 CC bike (5 years old) and i am happy with it even though i love 2L worth Royal Enfield Continental GT, even though i have savings to buy in a single payment, i will not buy it considering the monthly expenses and service charges.

Have a 1000 CC Hatchback car which is enough for my Family and Indian roads.

I wont spend much in restaurants/shopping  but instead utilize that money for trips , will travel with my family to all possible places (beaches, temples, amusement parks , new cities) with my small car, will pack food, spend time with them.

Living life simple makes me happy than others who earn more than me.

Edit 1 : I learnt this simple thing from My Dad, he is my role model for living a healthy life and saving from what we have in hand.

He doesn’t have any credit card or a loan, he has an own house 4 BHK, 3 lands at the his home town, still earning , living healthily.

He is 58 years old , has no BP , Sugar , Back Pain, the last time he went to hospital was 12 years back for a small accident in the bike.

His Routine : He wakes up by 5 AM , does Yoga , walks for 3 KM , reads news paper, chats with friends ,drops my sister to the college bus, goes to office , comes for lunch, goes to office, picks my sister from the college bus , takes care of home needs, goes to the market, gardening, visits temple, library, calls his close relatives and solves any problems in their family,spends time with my mom in the terrace, visits us in Chennai regularly once in a month, helps me to invest in good plans, plays with my daughter, visits his hometown for relatives function, Lives happily, He is a perfect example of how to live.

How many of you are having your lunch at Home today, will be very less, i used to go to Home for lunch twice in a week in between office time whenever the work is less, my dad use to come home daily for lunch (last 30 years) and help Mom in the kitchen for 10 mins , watches news while eating, he is not a billionaire but knows how to live without pressure, he knows to balance work and life.

My Dad’s cousins are earning more than him, working in the Gulf countries leaving their families here. my Mom usually worries about this as when relatives get richer, they only gain another home in Chennai and all kinds of diseases with them..My uncle who is the richest person in my entire family can’t eat a single food which has sugar/salt.He use to take insulin daily , whats the point of earning so much by working day and night!

I still say my dad is the richest person in my Family to have good children, good grand children, surrounded by positive friends (real friends), good environment , some good relatives & leading a peaceful life.

Till today i have never told him how much i admire him and how much i look to him as a role model for my Life, but he knows, does it need to be said ?

Peace be with you

શનિવાર, 28 જુલાઈ, 2018

Rulers of India

जानकारी काबीले तारीफ है... गौर किजीये !

*I N D I A N   R  U  L E  R  S*

युवा जागेगा तो देश जागेगा

*गुलाम वंश*
1=1193 मुहम्मद गौरी
2=1206 कुतुबुद्दीन ऐबक
3=1210 आराम शाह
4=1211 इल्तुतमिश
5=1236 रुकनुद्दीन फिरोज शाह
6=1236 रज़िया सुल्तान
7=1240 मुईज़ुद्दीन बहराम शाह
8=1242 अल्लाउदीन मसूद शाह
9=1246 नासिरुद्दीन महमूद 
10=1266 गियासुदीन बल्बन
11=1286 कै खुशरो
12=1287 मुइज़ुदिन कैकुबाद
13=1290 शमुद्दीन कैमुर्स
1290 गुलाम वंश समाप्त्
(शासन काल-97 वर्ष लगभग )

*👉खिलजी वंश*
1=1290 जलालुदद्दीन फ़िरोज़ खिलजी
2=1296
अल्लाउदीन खिलजी
4=1316 सहाबुद्दीन उमर शाह
5=1316 कुतुबुद्दीन मुबारक शाह
6=1320 नासिरुदीन खुसरो  शाह
7=1320 खिलजी वंश स्माप्त
(शासन काल-30 वर्ष लगभग )

*👉तुगलक  वंश*
1=1320 गयासुद्दीन तुगलक  प्रथम
2=1325 मुहम्मद बिन तुगलक दूसरा  
3=1351 फ़िरोज़ शाह तुगलक
4=1388 गयासुद्दीन तुगलक  दूसरा6
5=1389 अबु बकर शाह
6=1389 मुहम्मद  तुगलक  तीसरा
7=1394 सिकंदर शाह पहला
8=1394 नासिरुदीन शाह दुसरा
9=1395 नसरत शाह
10=1399 नासिरुदीन महमद शाह दूसरा दुबारा सता पर
11=1413 दोलतशाह
1414 तुगलक  वंश समाप्त
(शासन काल-94वर्ष लगभग )

*👉सैय्यद  वंश*
1=1414 खिज्र खान
2=1421 मुइज़ुदिन मुबारक शाह दूसरा
3=1434 मुहमद शाह चौथा
4=1445 अल्लाउदीन आलम शाह
1451 सईद वंश समाप्त
(शासन काल-37वर्ष लगभग )

*👉लोदी वंश*
1=1451 बहलोल लोदी
2=1489 सिकंदर लोदी दूसरा
3=1517 इब्राहिम लोदी
1526 लोदी वंश समाप्त
(शासन काल-75 वर्ष लगभग )

*👉मुगल वंश*
1=1526 ज़ाहिरुदीन बाबर
2=1530 हुमायूं
1539 मुगल वंश मध्यांतर

*👉सूरी वंश*
1=1539 शेर शाह सूरी
2=1545 इस्लाम शाह सूरी
3=1552 महमूद  शाह सूरी
4=1553 इब्राहिम सूरी
5=1554 फिरहुज़् शाह सूरी
6=1554 मुबारक खान सूरी
7=1555 सिकंदर सूरी
सूरी वंश समाप्त,(शासन काल-16 वर्ष लगभग )

*मुगल वंश पुनःप्रारंभ*
1=1555 हुमायू दुबारा गाद्दी पर
2=1556 जलालुदीन अकबर
3=1605 जहांगीर सलीम
4=1628 शाहजहाँ
5=1659 औरंगज़ेब
6=1707 शाह आलम पहला
7=1712 जहादर शाह
8=1713 फारूखशियर
9=1719 रईफुदु राजत
10=1719 रईफुद दौला
11=1719 नेकुशीयार
12=1719 महमूद शाह
13=1748 अहमद शाह
14=1754 आलमगीर
15=1759 शाह आलम
16=1806 अकबर शाह
17=1837 बहादुर शाह जफर
1857 मुगल वंश समाप्त
(शासन काल-315 वर्ष लगभग )

*👉ब्रिटिश राज (वाइसरॉय)*
1=1858 लॉर्ड केनिंग
2=1862 लॉर्ड जेम्स ब्रूस एल्गिन
3=1864 लॉर्ड जहॉन लोरेन्श
4=1869 लॉर्ड रिचार्ड मेयो
5=1872 लॉर्ड नोर्थबुक
6=1876 लॉर्ड एडवर्ड लुटेनलॉर्ड
7=1880 लॉर्ड ज्योर्ज रिपन
8=1884 लॉर्ड डफरिन
9=1888 लॉर्ड हन्नी लैंसडोन
10=1894 लॉर्ड विक्टर ब्रूस एल्गिन
11=1899 लॉर्ड ज्योर्ज कर्झन
12=1905 लॉर्ड गिल्बर्ट मिन्टो
13=1910 लॉर्ड चार्ल्स हार्डिंज
14=1916 लॉर्ड फ्रेडरिक सेल्मसफोर्ड
15=1921 लॉर्ड रुक्स आईजेक रिडींग
16=1926 लॉर्ड एडवर्ड इरविन
17=1931 लॉर्ड फ्रिमेन वेलिंग्दन
18=1936 लॉर्ड एलेक्जंद लिन्लिथगो
19=1943 लॉर्ड आर्किबाल्ड वेवेल
20=1947 लॉर्ड माउन्टबेटन

ब्रिटिस राज समाप्त शासन काल 90 वर्ष लगभग

*🇮🇳आजाद भारत,प्राइम मिनिस्टर🇮🇳*
1=1947 जवाहरलाल नेहरू
2=1964 गुलजारीलाल नंदा
3=1964 लालबहादुर शास्त्री
4=1966 गुलजारीलाल नंदा
5=1966 इन्दिरा गांधी
6=1977 मोरारजी देसाई
7=1979 चरणसिंह
8=1980 इन्दिरा गांधी
9=1984 राजीव गांधी
10=1989 विश्वनाथ प्रतापसिंह
11=1990 चंद्रशेखर
12=1991 पी.वी.नरसिंह राव
13=अटल बिहारी वाजपेयी
14=1996 ऐच.डी.देवगौड़ा
15=1997 आई.के.गुजराल
16=1998 अटल बिहारी वाजपेयी
17=2004 डॉ.मनमोहनसिंह
*18=2014 से  नरेन्द्र मोदी*

*764 सालों  बाद मुस्लिमों तथा अंग्रेज़ों के ग़ुलामी से आज़ादी मिली है। ये हिन्दुओं का देश है। यहाँ बहुसंख्यक होते हुए भी हिन्दू अपने ही देश ग़ुलाम बन के रहे और आज लोग कह रहे है। हिन्दू साम्प्रदायिक हो गए .....*

*सदियों बाद नरेन्द्र मोदी तथा  महाराज बाबा योगी आदित्यनाथ जी के रूप में हिन्दू की सरकार आयी है। सभी भारतियों को इन पर गर्व करना चाहिए।*

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
ये महत्वपूर्ण जानकारी ज्यादा से ज्यादा ग्रुपों में भेजें सब युवाओं के ध्यान में रहें।
🚩🚩जय श्री राम🚩🚩

શુક્રવાર, 27 જુલાઈ, 2018

Development of women

💎 *पत्नियों का विकास क्रम* 💎

*1960  में -*

पति :- एक कप चाय..!!
पत्नी - (पहले से... लिए खड़ी मिलती थी)

*1970 में -*

पति :- एक कप चाय.!!
पत्नी :- अभी लाई जी...

*1980 में -*

पति :- एक कप चाय..!!
पत्नी :-  लाती हूँ..।

*1990 में -*

पति :- एक कप चाय..!!
पत्नी :-  ला रही हूँ , थोड़ा सब्र रखो...

*2000 में -*

पति :- एक कप चाय..!!
पत्नी :- लाऊँगी अभी..,
सीरियल में... ब्रेक आने दो...

*2010 में -*

पति :- एक कप चाय..!!
पत्नी :-  हल्ला न करो,  देती हूँ... नहीं तो खुद ही बना के पी लो...

*Now a days - 2018*
                                                            
पति :- एक कप चाय..!!
पत्नी :- क्या कहा.....??

पति :- एक कप चाय बनाने जा रहा था, सोचा तुमसे भी.. पूछ लूँ.., पियोगी क्या..??🙏🙏

બુધવાર, 25 જુલાઈ, 2018

Richness of old age

*બેડપેન કોણ આપશે ?*

અમૂક ઉંમર પછી સૌથી લાંબુ અંતર આપણી પથારીથી આપણા વોશરૂમ સુધીનું હોય છે. ત્યારે ફક્ત આંખો જ નહિ, ચાદર પણ ભીની થાય છે. ઓશિકા, ગાદલા, કપડા બધું જ પલળે અને છતાં એક વસ્તુ કોરી કટ્ટ રહી જાય અને એ આપણો વટ. કેટલાક વર્ષો પહેલા ડાયપરમાંથી માંડ નીકળેલા આપણે ફરી પાછા ડાયપરમાં પ્રવેશીએ છીએ. ફરી પાછું આપણી પાસે કોઈ આવે અને ડાયપર બદલી દે, એની રાહ જોવાની. ડાયપરની સાઈઝ સિવાય કશું જ બદલાતું નથી.

એ તબક્કે કબાટમાં પડેલા પ્રોપર્ટીના ડોક્યુમેન્ટ્સ અને ચેકબુક, ઈચ્છે તો પણ આપણી મદદ નહિ કરી શકે. વોશરૂમમાં નખાવેલા મોંઘાદાટ કમોડ અને બાથરૂમ ફીટીંગ્સ, ચાલીને આપણા સુધી આવી પણ નહિ શકે. મહેનત કરીને મેળવેલી બધી જ લક્ઝરી લાચાર થઈને આપણને જોયા કરશે અને આપણને વોશરૂમ સુધી જવાની લક્ઝરી પણ નહિ મળે.
ત્યારે જિંદગી આપણા વશમાં નહિ હોય અને આપણે પોતે પથારીવશ હોઈશું.

જીવતરના બોર્ડની પરીક્ષાનું સાચું રીઝલ્ટ ત્યારે ખબર પડશે. ધીમા અવાજે એક જ વાર બોલાવીએ અને ઘરના કોઈપણ ખૂણેથી ઘરની જ કોઈ વ્યક્તિ જો બેડપેન લઈને હાજર થઈ જાય, તો સમજવું કે આપણું ઇન્વેસ્ટમેન્ટ યોગ્ય જગ્યાએ હતું.

જુવાનીના દિવસોમાં જે સંબંધ હાથમાં ચા અને ચહેરા પર સ્મિત લઈને આપણી તરફ દોડતો, એ જ સંબંધ જો હાથમાં બેડપેન અને ચહેરા પર વ્હાલ લઈને આપણી તરફ દોડતો હોય તો બેંકના સ્ટેટમેન્ટ વગર પણ આપણે સમજી જવું જોઈએ કે આપણે સમૃદ્ધ છીએ.
*-ડૉ. નિમિત્ત ઓઝા*

Milk bath to Krishna

નારદજી :~ અરે પ્રભુ ! તમારો જન્મદિવસ (જન્માષ્ટમી) નજીકમા છે અને તમે આટલા ઉદાસ કેમ ?

શ્રીકૃષ્ણ :~ અરે નારદજી ! એની જ તો ચિંતા છે. જન્માષ્ટમીના દિવસે રાત્રે 12વાગ્યે ન્યુઝ ચેનલો ચાલુ કરીને જુઓ તો ખરા, આપને બધુ સમજાઈ જશે.

નારદજી :~ એવુ તે શું બતાવે છે ન્યુઝ ચેનલ ?

શ્રીકૃષ્ણ :~ મારા જન્મદિવસે "ગોકુળ-મથુરા-વૃન્દાવન" ના મંદિરોમા "દૂધ-દહી-ઘી-મધ" ને શંખમા ભરી-ભરીને મારી નાની અમથી મૂર્તિ પર અભીષેક કરવામા આવે છે, અને આ દ્રવ્યો ભેગા થઈ છેવટે ગટરમા જાય છે, અને મંદિરમા પણ દુધની ડેરીમા આવતી હોય એવી દુર્ગંધ આવે છે એ બધુ યાદ આવતા, હુ દુ:ખી-દુ:ખી થઈ જાવ છુ.

નારદજી :~ અરે પ્રભુ ! આ તો ભક્તોનો તમારા પ્રત્યેનો પ્રેમ છે

શ્રીકૃષ્ણ :~ જો મુનીવર, તમે જ કહો... મારો એક દિકરો મંદીરની બહાર બે-ત્રણ દીવસથી ખાધા-પીધા વગરનો પડ્યો હોય અને બીજો દીકરો મારી મૂર્તી પર આટલો-આટલો અભિષેક કરી, બગાડ કરે તો દુ:ખ તો થાય કે નહી ?

નારદજી :~ વાત તો વિચારવા જેવી છે... તો પ્રભુ તમારી શું ઈચ્છા છે ?

શ્રી કૃષ્ણ :~ જેમ શ્રીફળ વધેરી, થોડો ભાગ ભગવાનને ધરી બાકીનો ભાગ પ્રસાદી તરીકે વહેચાય છે, તેમ દુધ-દહી-ઘી-મધ માથી એક ચમચી મારી મૂર્તી પર ચડાવી બાકીનુ દ્રવ્ય મારા અશકત દિકરાઓમા પ્રસાદી તરીકે વહેચાય એ વધુ ઈચ્છનીય છે.

અને બીજુ હુ મારા ભક્તોને એ કહેવા માંગુ છુ.... કે મને દુધ-દહી-માખણ-ઘી વધારે ભાવે છે તો મને એ ખવડાવવાના બદલે એનાથી નવડાવવાનો ? ? તમે કોઈ દિવસ આ દ્રવ્યોથી ન્હાવ છો ખરા ? ? કે તમારા બાળકોને ક્યારેય એનાથી નવડાવ્યા છે ? ?

નારદજી :~ પરંતુ પ્રભુ !  આ વાત ભક્તો સુધી પહોચાડવી કઈ રીતે ?

શ્રી કૃષ્ણ :~ અરે ! એટલે જ તો આપને યાદ કર્યા છે મુનિવર, સમાચાર ફેલાવવાનું કામ તમારાથી સારી રીતે કોણ કરી શકે ?

નારદજી :~ પ્રભુ ! હુ એકલો કેટલી જગ્યાએ પહોચું ? પણ મારી પાસે એક સરસ ઉપાય છે.

શ્રી કૃષ્ણ :~ તો વાર ના લગાડો, મુનિવર.... બોલો ફટાફટ

નારદજી :~ પૃથ્વીલોકમા "માર્ક ઝુકરબર્ગ" ની બે એપ્લીકેશન એટલે કે ફેસબુક અને વોટ્સ-અપ ગ્રુપના માધ્યમથી ભારતના જાગૃત યુવાનો આ સંદેશ ફેલાવી શકે અને બીનજરૂરી બગાડ અટકાવી શકે.

શ્રી કૃષ્ણ :~ ખુબ જ સરસ વિચાર છે.

નારદજી : ~ સારુ તો મને રજા આપો... નારાયણ !  નારાયણ !

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How to learn to be happier?

Did you know that at Harvard, one of the most prestigious universities in the world, the most popular and successful course teaches you how to learn to be happier?
The Positive Psychology class taught by Ben Shahar attracts 1400 students per semester and 20% of Harvard graduates take this elective course. According to Ben Shahar, the class - which focuses on happiness, self-esteem and motivation - gives students the tools to succeed and face life with more joy._This 45-year-old teacher, considered by some to be "the happiness guru", highlights in his class 14 key tips for improving the quality of our personal status and contributing to a positive life:
🚩Tip 1. *Thank God for everything you have:* Write down 10 things you have in your life that give you happiness. Focus on the good things!
🚩Tip 2. *Practice physical activity*: Experts say exercising helps improve mood. 30 minutes of exercise is the best antidote against sadness and stress.
🚩Tip 3. *Breakfast:* Some people miss breakfast for lack of time or not to get fat. Studies show that breakfast gives you energy, helps you think and perform your activities successfully.
🚩Tip 4. *Assertive*: Ask what you want and say what you think. Being assertive helps improve your self-esteem. Being left and remaining silent creates sadness and hopelessness.
🚩Tip 5. *Spend your money on experiences*: A study found that 75% of people felt happier when they invested their money in travel, courses and classes; While only the rest said they felt happier when buying things.
🚩Tip 6. *Face your challenges*: Studies show that the more you postpone something, the more anxiety and tension you generate. Write short weekly lists of tasks and complete them.
🚩Tip 7. *Put everywhere nice memories, phrases and photos of your loved ones*: Fill your fridge, your computer, your desk, your room, YOUR LIFE of beautiful memories.
🚩Tip 8. *Always greet and be nice to other people*: More than 100 inquiries state that just smiling changes the mood.
🚩Tip 9. *Wear comfortable shoes*: If your feet hurt you, you become moody, says Dr. Keinth Wapner, President of the American Orthopedics Association.
🚩Tip 10. *Take care of your posture*: Walk straight with your shoulders slightly backwards and the front view helps to maintain a good mood.
🚩Tip 11. *Listen to music* (Praise God): It is proven that listening to music awakens you to sing, this will make your life happy.
🚩Tip 12. *What you eat has an impact on your mood*:- Do not skip meals, eat lightly every 3 to 4 hours and keep glucose levels stable.- Avoid excess white flour and sugar.- Eat everything! Healthy- Vary your food.
🚩Tip 13. *Take care of yourself and feel attractive*:70% of people say they feel happier when they think they look good.
🚩Tip 14. *Fervently believe in God*: With him nothing is impossible!
🚩 Tip 15 *Develop a good sense of humour.* Learn to laugh off matters, specially when things don't go right for you.

Happiness is like a remote control, we lose it every time, we go crazy looking for it and many times without knowing it, we are sitting on top of it ...

Have a pleasant day🙏🌹
www.maheshpai.in

સોમવાર, 23 જુલાઈ, 2018

Biomedical waste

Biomedical waste is a misnomer and thrust on medical professionals to harass them and extract money illegally.

Take a scenario  a pt with open tuberculosis with diabetic foot admitted in a hospital, pt foot ambutated and marked as biomedical waste and all precautions are required to disposed in a dedicated team in a dedicated incinerator. The pt died body hand over to relatives, the body burned in a open space without following any norms.Where is biomedical waste norms for open burning and burial of dead bodies. Since there is no law available for controlling burials and burning of dead bodies what ever the disease they aquired, there is no point in harassing hospitals in the name of biomedical waste management. 

Even in slaughter house the materials of animals are treated as general waste. Chicken/mutton/fish cut in open spaces and the waste thrown in waste bucket cleared by municipality. 

Not all the things generated in hospitals are infective and hazardous. Go through the data available regarding the disease spread by biomedical waste from hospitals, it is negligible compared with any other infectious diseases. Only the needles and sharp objects are commen  in small and medium hospitals, they can be destroyed in needle destroyer and disposed off .There are other rules available for disposal of radioactive materials and they form a small group. 

The linen and material wastes from OT and ward are disposed through separate firms( teknotherm) for which hospitals pay separately..

Pollution control board is sucking money from hospitals.

The tax to be paid to pollution control board is based on ....
Hospital asset value, which has to be given/ certified by an auditor...Does this make sense???.😥 Why hospital should pay , pollution tax on asset value?

Does the govt know the value of CT machine? What is the environmental/ public hazard posed by that machine? Do the govt know the land cost in major cities? What is the environmental/ public hazard posed by that land?  Why hospital should pay pollution control tax based on land value??? The problem is government has simply passed on the tax structure of industries to hospital. In industrial sector, more the asset value ( machines ) mean more pollution generation..Why the same rule is followed for hospitals???

IMA rather than taking this seriously🤔
seems to be soft pedalling this issue for years.  Let IMA explain government or government explain IMA What (and how) is the
Water pollution
Air pollution
Noise pollution
Soil pollution
caused by the hospital???

Hospitals must be denoted in green category of industry as per pollution control board norms. IMA should take all steps towards this goal ( file case against this arbitrary pollution tax in court) and free the hospitals from clutches of Pollution control board which is not promoting pollution control but promoting corruption, the doctors/hospitals treated as soft targets. 

*TO BE _forwarded_endlessly*

ગુરુવાર, 19 જુલાઈ, 2018

Gujarati collection

*Super   Gujarati    Collection*
*આમાંનું એકપણ વાક્ય નપસંદ પડે તો , મને પાછું આપશો !.......*
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*ગમતું હોય તે મળતું નથી,મળે છે તે ગમતું  નથી....ગજબ   છે ઝીંદગી ની રમતો , આવે જયારે ૩ એક્કા ત્યારે સામે કોઈ રમતું નથી.*
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*કેટલુ સરળ છે ઈશ્વર ' ને ' માનવું . પરંતુ, કેટલુ કઠણ છે ઈશ્વર ' નુ’ માનવું.*
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*સબંધના મોતિ પરોવી રાખજો, વિશ્વાસની દોરી મજબુત બનાવી રાખજો, અમે ક્યાં કીધું કે અમારા જ દોસ્ત બનીને રહો , પણ તમારા દોસ્તો ની યાદીમાં, એક નામ અમારું પણ રાખજો.*
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*નયન મળતા નયન શરમાઈ જશે, મન મળતા મન હરખાઈ જશે, જીંદગી છે તો*
*માં - બાપની સેવા કરી જોજો, સ્વર્ગ શુ છે, તે જીવતા જીવતા સમજી જશો.*
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*કેટલાક સંબંધો જીવન સાથે વણાઈ જાય છે, કેટલીક યાદો સ્વપ્ન બનીને રહી જાય છે, લાખો મુસાફિર પસાર થઇ જાય તો પણ, કોઈકના પગલા કાયમ માટે યાદ રહી જાય છે.*
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*ઝીંદગી મળવી એ નસીબની વાત છે, મોત મળવું એ સમયની વાત છે પણ મોત પછી પણ કોઈના દિલમાં જીવતા રેહવું એ ઝીંદગીમાં કરેલા કર્મની વાત છે.*
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*પાનખરમાં વસંત થવુ મને ગમે છે, યાદોની વર્ષામાં ભીંજાવુ મને ગમે છે, આંખ તો ભીની કાયમ રહે છે, તો પણ કોઈના માટે હસતા રહેવું ગમે છે.*
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*મોકલું છું મીઠી યાદ, ક્યાંક સાચવી રાખજો, મિત્રો હમેશા અમૂલ્ય છે, યાદ રાખજો,તડકામાં છાયો ના લાવી શકે તો કંઈ નહિ, ખુલા પગે તમારી સાથે ચાલશે એજ યાદ રાખજો.*
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*આંસુ સુકાયા પછી જે મળવા આવે, એ સંબંધ છે, ને આંસુ પેહેલા જે આવે એ પ્રેમ   છે.*
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*દરેક ઘર નું સરનામું તો હોય, પણ ગમતા સરનામે ઘર બની જાય એ જ જીવન છે.*
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*નસીબ નું ક્યારેય કોઈ ઝુંટવીશકતું નથી, અને ઝૂંટવી જાય એ ક્યારેય નસીબ માં હોતું નથી.*
*જ્યારે કોઈ હાથ અને સાથ બંને છોડી દે ત્યારે, કુદરત કોઈ આંગળી પકડનાર મોકલી જ દે છે કદાચ આનું નામ જ*
           🌹🌜 *જિંદગી છે*🌛🌹

સોમવાર, 16 જુલાઈ, 2018

World marriage day

*Today on World Marriage Day it's good to read a post on Facebook by Michelle Barrack Obama.*
Every couple should read....

*HARDCORE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE!*

1. *There is nothing that threatens the security of a wife than the thought of another woman competing for the attention and affection of her husband.* 
Nothing is more painful. Nothing is more disrespecting. Nothing is more insulting. Nothing is more belittling and degrading.

2. *Marriage flourishes when the couple works together as a team; when both husband and wife decide that winning together is more important than keeping score.*
Good marriages don't just happen. They are a product of hard work.

3. *Your children are watching you and forming lasting opinions on love, commitment, and marriage based on what they see in you.* Give them hope. Make them look forward to marriage.

4. *Husbands: The reason why other women look attractive is because someone is taking good care of them.*
Grass is always green where it is watered. Instead of drooling over the green grass on the other side of the fence, work on yours and water it regularly. Any man can admire a beautiful woman, but it takes a true gentleman to make a woman admirable and beautiful.

5. *When a husband puts his wife first above everyone and everything except God, it gives his wife the sense of security and honor that every wife hungers for.*

6. *A successful marriage doesn't require a big house, a prefect spouse, a million dollars or an expensive car.*  You can have all the above and still have a miserable marriage. A successful marriage requires honesty, undying commitment and selfless love and God at the center of it all.

7. *Pray for your spouse every day; in the morning, in the afternoon and at evening.*
Don’t wait until there is a problem. Don’t wait until there is an affair. Don’t wait until something bad happens. Don’t wait until your spouse is tempted. Shield your spouse with prayer and cover your marriage with the fence of prayer.

8. *The people you surround yourself with have a lot of influence on your marriage.*
Friends can build or break your marriage; choose them wisely.

9. *One spouse cannot build a marriage alone when the other spouse is committed to destroying it.*
Marriage works when both husband and wife work together as a team to build their marriage.

10. *Don't take your spouse for granted.* Don't take advantage of your spouse's weekness and goodness. Don't mistake your spouse's loyalty for desperation. Don't misuse or abuse yours spouse's trust. You may end up regretting after losing someone that meant so much to you.

11. *Beware of marital advice from single people.*
Regardless of how sincere their advice may be, most of it is theoretical and not derived from real life experiences. If you really need Godly advice, seek it from God-fearing, impartial and prayerful mature couples whose resolve has been tested by time and shaped by trials.

12. *Dear wife, don't underestimate the power of the tongue on your marriage.*
The tongue has the power to crush your marriage or build it up. Don't let the Devil use your tongue to kill your spouse's image, self-confidence and aspirations. Let God use your tongue to build up your marriage and bless and praise your spouse.

*Marriage is teamwork which works best without third party influence. Don't let others predict the fate of your marriage. Create a relationship that is unaffected by the false presumptions of others*

WISHING YOU ALL A *HAPPY MARRIAGE* AND FOR THOSE          SINGLE I WISH YOU A *HAPPY RELATIONSHIP* 🌹

The truth of life and relationships

पढ़ाई पूरी करने के बाद एक छात्र किसी बड़ी कंपनी में नौकरी पाने की चाह में इंटरव्यू देने के लिए पहुंचा....

छात्र ने बड़ी आसानी से पहला इंटरव्यू पास कर लिया...

अब फाइनल इंटरव्यू
कंपनी के डायरेक्टर को लेना था...

और डायरेक्टर को ही तय
करना था कि उस छात्र को नौकरी पर रखा जाए या नहीं...

डायरेक्टर ने छात्र का सीवी (curricular vitae)  देखा और पाया  कि पढ़ाई के साथ- साथ यह  छात्र ईसी (extra curricular activities)  में भी हमेशा अव्वल रहा...

डायरेक्टर- "क्या तुम्हें  पढ़ाई के दौरान
कभी छात्रवृत्ति (scholarship)  मिली...?"

छात्र- "जी नहीं..."

डायरेक्टर- "इसका मतलब स्कूल-कॉलेज  की फीस तुम्हारे पिता अदा करते थे.."

छात्र- "जी हाँ , श्रीमान ।"

डायरेक्टर- "तुम्हारे पिताजी  क्या काम  करते  है?"

छात्र- "जी वो लोगों के कपड़े धोते हैं..."

यह सुनकर कंपनी के डायरेक्टर ने कहा- "ज़रा अपने हाथ तो दिखाना..."

छात्र के हाथ रेशम की तरह मुलायम और नाज़ुक थे...

डायरेक्टर- "क्या तुमने कभी  कपड़े धोने में अपने  पिताजी की मदद की...?"

छात्र- "जी नहीं, मेरे  पिता हमेशा यही चाहते थे
कि मैं पढ़ाई  करूं और ज़्यादा से ज़्यादा किताबें
पढ़ूं...

हां , एक बात और, मेरे पिता बड़ी तेजी  से कपड़े धोते हैं..."

डायरेक्टर- "क्या मैं तुम्हें  एक काम कह सकता हूं...?"

छात्र- "जी, आदेश कीजिए..."

डायरेक्टर- "आज घर वापस जाने के बाद अपने पिताजी के हाथ धोना...
फिर कल सुबह मुझसे आकर मिलना..."

छात्र यह सुनकर प्रसन्न हो गया...
उसे लगा कि अब नौकरी  मिलना तो पक्का है,

तभी तो  डायरेक्टर ने कल फिर बुलाया है...

छात्र ने घर आकर खुशी-खुशी अपने पिता को ये सारी बातें बताईं और अपने हाथ दिखाने को कहा...

पिता को थोड़ी हैरानी हुई...
लेकिन फिर भी उसने बेटे
की इच्छा का मान करते हुए अपने दोनों हाथ उसके
हाथों में दे दिए...

छात्र ने पिता के हाथों को धीरे-धीरे धोना शुरू किया। कुछ देर में ही हाथ धोने के साथ ही उसकी आंखों से आंसू भी झर-झर बहने लगे...

पिता के हाथ रेगमाल (emery paper) की तरह सख्त और जगह-जगह से कटे हुए थे...

यहां तक कि जब भी वह  कटे के निशानों पर  पानी डालता, चुभन का अहसास
पिता के चेहरे पर साफ़ झलक जाता था...।

छात्र को ज़िंदगी में पहली बार एहसास हुआ कि ये
वही हाथ हैं जो रोज़ लोगों के कपड़े धो-धोकर उसके
लिए अच्छे खाने, कपड़ों और स्कूल की फीस का इंतज़ाम करते थे...

पिता के हाथ का हर छाला सबूत था उसके एकेडैमिक कैरियर की एक-एक
कामयाबी का...

पिता के हाथ धोने के बाद छात्र को पता ही नहीं चला कि उसने  उस दिन के बचे हुए सारे कपड़े भी एक-एक कर धो डाले...

उसके पिता रोकते ही रह गए , लेकिन छात्र अपनी धुन में कपड़े धोता चला गया...

उस रात बाप- बेटे ने काफ़ी देर तक बातें कीं ...

अगली सुबह छात्र फिर नौकरी  के लिए कंपनी के  डायरेक्टर के ऑफिस में था...

डायरेक्टर का सामना करते हुए छात्र की आंखें गीली थीं...

डायरेक्टर- "हूं , तो फिर कैसा रहा कल घर पर ?
क्या तुम अपना अनुभव मेरे साथ शेयर करना पसंद करोगे....?"

छात्र- " जी हाँ , श्रीमान कल मैंने जिंदगी का एक वास्तविक अनुभव सीखा...

नंबर एक... मैंने सीखा कि सराहना क्या होती है...
मेरे पिता न होते तो मैं पढ़ाई में इतनी आगे नहीं आ सकता था...

नंबर दो... पिता की मदद करने से मुझे पता चला कि किसी काम को करना कितना सख्त और मुश्किल होता है...

नंबर तीन.. . मैंने रिश्तों की अहमियत पहली बार
इतनी शिद्दत के साथ महसूस की..."

डायरेक्टर- "यही सब है जो मैं अपने मैनेजर में देखना चाहता हूं...

मैं यह नौकरी केवल उसे  देना चाहता हूं जो दूसरों की मदद की कद्र करे,
ऐसा व्यक्ति जो काम किए जाने के दौरान दूसरों की तकलीफ भी महसूस करे...

ऐसा शख्स जिसने
सिर्फ पैसे को ही जीवन का ध्येय न बना रखा हो...

मुबारक हो, तुम इस नौकरी  के पूरे हक़दार हो..."

आप अपने बच्चों को बड़ा मकान दें, बढ़िया खाना दें,
बड़ा टीवी, मोबाइल, कंप्यूटर सब कुछ दें...

लेकिन साथ ही  अपने बच्चों को यह अनुभव भी हासिल करने दें कि उन्हें पता चले कि घास काटते हुए कैसा लगता है ?

उन्हें  भी अपने हाथों से ये  काम करने दें...

खाने के बाद कभी बर्तनों को धोने का अनुभव भी अपने साथ घर के सब बच्चों को मिलकर करने दें...

ऐसा इसलिए
नहीं कि आप मेड पर पैसा खर्च नहीं कर सकते,
बल्कि इसलिए कि आप अपने बच्चों से सही प्यार करते हैं...

आप उन्हें समझाते हैं कि पिता कितने भी अमीर
क्यों न हो, एक दिन उनके बाल सफेद होने ही हैं...

सबसे अहम हैं आप के बच्चे  किसी काम को करने
की कोशिश की कद्र करना सीखें...

एक दूसरे का हाथ
बंटाते हुए काम करने का जज्ब़ा अपने अंदर
लाएं...

यही है सबसे बड़ी सीख..............

उक्त कहानी यदि पसंद आई हो तो अपने परिवार में सुनाएँ और अपने बच्चों को सर्वोच्च शिक्षा प्रदान कराये

आँखे बन्द करके जो प्रेम करे वो 'प्रेमिका' है।
आँखे खोल के जो प्रेम करे वो 'दोस्त' है।
आँखे दिखाके जो प्रेम करे वो 'पत्नी' है।
अपनी आँखे बंद होने तक जो प्रेम करे वो 'माँ' है।
परन्तु आँखों में प्रेम न जताते हुये भी जो प्रेम करे वो 'पिता' है।
दिल से पढ़ो और ग़ौर करो

શુક્રવાર, 13 જુલાઈ, 2018

What is old age

માં-બાપ ની અમુક ટેવ ઉપર જો તમને ગુસ્સો આવતો હોય તો જરૂર વાંચશો...

આ વાંચી લીધા બાદ જો દિલ ના ભરાઇ આવે તો તમે માણસ નહી ...

             *ઘડપણનો બળાપો*

બાળકે દાદાને પૂછ્યું " ઘડપણ " એટલે શું દાદુ..?

દાદા -- તારી મમ્મીને સમય મળે ત્યારે....
- ચા બનાવે ને ત્યારે પીવા મળે તે  ( ધડપણ )

- ચાનો કપ લેતા હાથ ધ્રુજે તે  ( ઘડપણ )

- ધ્રુજતા હાથે ચા પીતા પીતા થોડી ઢોળાય....
ને જાતે પોતું મારવું પડે...
નહીં તો તારી મમ્મી રાડું નાખે તે  ( ઘડપણ )

- સવારમાં નાસ્તો કરવાનું બંધ થાય તે  ( ધડપણ )

- નાહી ધોઈને તૈયાર થઈને બહાર વહ્યું જવાનું
ને જમવા ટાણે ઘેર આવવાનું તે *ઘડપણ*

- બપોરે જમીને સૌથી અલગ રૂમમાં 4 વાગ્યા સુધી.

- ઊંધ આવે કે ના આવે પડ્યું રેવાનુ તે  ( ધડપણ )

- નીચે ઉતરીને બહાર જતા હોઈયે ત્યારે નીચે છોકરા ને તેની મમ્મી નાસ્તો કરતા હોય....
પણ....,જોઈને રાજી થવાનું...,
ને પેટ ને મનાવી લેવાનું....
ને સાંજ સુધી બહાર રેવાનું....
*તે  (ધડપણ )*

- અંતે તે દાદાએ કહયું કે......

" બેટા...,!  *" ઘડપણ "* બહું જ ખરાબ છે...!

કોઈને કરચલીવાળી ચામડી અને ધ્રુજતા હાથમાં રસ જ નથી....!

સૌને લીસ્સી ચામડીમાં જ રસ છે પણ તું ચામડીને નો જોતો હો  બેટા...!,

મારી અંદર હજી એક જુવાન દાદો જીવે જ  છે...
જેને રોજ સાંજે ૫ વાગે ભૂખ લાગે છે....
      
*આપણા સમાજની નરી વાસ્તવિકતા*

..

બુધવાર, 11 જુલાઈ, 2018

The contact and connection


"The contact and connection"

The year was 1990.   I was returning from Delhi by flight with a monk of the RamaKrishna Mission. A  journalist from Chile was there with us . He started
interviewing  the monk, as had been decided earlier.

Journalist - Dear Sir , in your last lecture, you  told about Jogajog ( contact ) &  Sanjog (connection ). It's really confusing. Can you explain it to me ?

The Monk smiled a little but apparently deviating from the question,  he asked the journalist:Are you from Chile ?
Journalist( J ) - Yeh...
Monk ( M ) - Who are there at home ?
The Journalist felt that the  Monk was trying to avoid answering his question since  this was a very personal and unwarranted question. Yet the  journalist  said:    "Mother has expired. Father is there. Three brothers and one sister. All are married..."
The Monk, a smile on his  face,   asked next: - "Do you talk to your father?"
Now the  journalist looked visibly annoyed...
The Monk  - "When did you talk to him last?" The
journalist supressing his annoyance said:  "May be a month back."
The Monk:  "Do you brothers and sisters meet often ? When did you last meet as a family together?"

At this point, I saw  sweat on the journalist's  fore head. I wondered who was taking whose interview. It seemed that the   Monk was taking the interview of the journalist.

With a sigh , the journalist said: "We met last at Christmas two  years  ago."
The Monk: " How many days did you all stay together ?"

The journalist ( wiping the sweat on his brow) : "Three days..."
Monk: "How much time did you  spend with your Father, sitting right  beside him ?"
I saw the journalist looking  perplexed and embarassed and scribbling something on a paper...
The Monk:  "Did you have breakfast or lunch or dinner together ? Did you ask how he was? Did you ask how his days are passing after your mother's death ?"

I saw the journalist's eyes sadden.

The Monk placed his hand on the journalist's hand and said: "don't be embrassed or upset or sad. I am sorry if I have hurt you unknowingly...
But this is basically the answer to your question about "contact and connection ( jogajog and Sanjog)".  You have 'contact'  with your father but you don't have 'connection' with him. You are not connected to him. Connection is between heart and heart... sitting together , sharing meals , caring for & hugging each other. Touch , shaking hands, having eye contact,  spending some time together...You  brothers and sisters have 'contact' with each  but you have no  'connection' with each other...."

The journalist wiped his eyes and said : "Thanks for teaching me a fine and unforgettable lesson"

This is the reality today.
Whether at home, in society and elsewhere everybody has lots and lots of contacts but there is no connection. No communication...   . Everybody is in a his or her own world.

Let's not be well "contacted" - let's be well "connected" ,  with each other ...... caring , sharing , touching , hugging , spending time together with all our near and dear ones, and other co-passengers in our life travels.

God bless us all!