લેબલ calm સાથે પોસ્ટ્સ બતાવી રહ્યું છે. બધી પોસ્ટ્સ બતાવો
લેબલ calm સાથે પોસ્ટ્સ બતાવી રહ્યું છે. બધી પોસ્ટ્સ બતાવો

બુધવાર, 15 જાન્યુઆરી, 2020

I am changing

#iamchanging

Days slip into weeks,
weeks turn into months
and months transform into years.
Calendars are changing and so am I.

Yes, I  am changing
After loving my parents,
my siblings, my spouse, my children,
my friends, now I have started loving myself.

Yes, I  am changing
I just realised that I am not “ Atlas ”and
the world does not rest on my shoulders.

Yes, I  am changing
I now stopped bargaining with vendors.
After all, a few rupees more
is not going to burn a hole in my pocket
but it might help the them save for their daughter’s school fees

Yes, I  am changing
I pay d auto /cab n walk away
without waiting for the change
The extra money might bring a smile
on his their face after toiling harder  than me everyday .

Yes, I  am changing
I stopped telling the elderly
that they have  narrated that story
many times.after all,it  makes them
walk down d memory lane n relive d past.

Yes, I  am changing
I have learnt  not to correct 
people even when I know they r wrong
After all,d onus of making all perfect is not on me
Peace is more precious than perfection.

Yes, I  am changing
I give compliments freely n generously
After all its  a mood enhancer not only for the recipient, but also for me........

Yes, I  am changing
I have learnt not to bother
about a crease on my dress
or a spot on my skirt, after all,
personality speaks louder than appearances.

Yes, I  am changing
I walk  away from people
who don't value me,after all,
they might not know my worth, but I do

Yes, I  am changing
I remain cool when someone
plays dirty politics to outrun me
in the rat race,after all,I am not a rat
and neither am I in any race.

Yes, I  am changing
I am learning not to be
embarrassed by my emotions
After all, it's my emotions
that make me human.

Yes, I  am changing
I have learnt that its better to drop ego
than to break a relationship.
After all, my ego will keep me alone  whereas with relationships
I will never be alone.

Yes, I  am changing
I demand  whatever  is due to me,
after all, accepting injustice
is almost as bad as doing injustice.

Yes, I  am changing
I've learnt to live each day
as if it were the last.
After all, it might be the last.

Yes, I  am changing
I am doing what makes me happy.
After all, I am responsible for my happiness,
and I owe it to me.....

AND YES OH YES "I'M LOVING THE NEW ME

ગુરુવાર, 10 મે, 2018

Be calm and patient

A car ahead was moving like a turtle and not giving me way inspite of my continuous honking! I was on brink of losing my cool when I noticed the small sticker on the car’s rear!

“Physically challenged; Please be patient.”

And that changed everything!! I immediately went calm & slowed down!! In fact I got a little protective of the car & the driver!!! I reached work a few minutes late, but it was ok!

And then it struck me.  Would I have been patient if there was no sticker!???! Why do we need stickers to be patient with people!??

Will we be more patient & kind with others if people had labels pasted on their foreheads??
Labels like ——
“ Lost my job” , “Fighting cancer”, “Going through a bad divorce” , “ Suffering Emotional abuse “ , "Lost a loved one”, “Feeling worthless” , “ Financially broken”..... and more like these!!!!

Everyone is fighting a battle we know nothing about. The least we can do is be patient & kind!!!

Let us respect the invisible labels!!!!

બુધવાર, 22 ફેબ્રુઆરી, 2017

Peace

Peace.
It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work.
It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in our heart.