શનિવાર, 22 ઑક્ટોબર, 2022
Medical Profession is in Dilemma
મંગળવાર, 5 મે, 2020
Medical Vs other professions
Please Forward this message to all Non-Medico Persons on your Contacts..
''MYTHS AND FACTS OF MEDICAL PRACTICE''
*1. MYTH - MEDICAL PROFESSION IS A NOBLE PROFESSION*..
FACT- EVERY PROFESSION, WHETHER OF A TEACHER, SOLDIER, TAILOR OR SHOPKEEPER, IS NOBLE, IF DONE WITH SINCERITY AND INTEGRITY.
*A CARELESS DOCTOR CAN KILL ONE**, A CARELESS DRIVER CAN KILL DOZENS, A CARELESS ENGINEER CAN KILL HUNDREDS..
*2. MYTH - AS IT IS A SERVICE TO HUMANITY, DOCTORS SHOULD NOT RUN AFTER MONEY*.
FACT - MONEY IS AN IMPORTANT MEASURE OF SUCCESS. RUNNING AFTER IT IS NOT GOOD FOR ANYBODY, BUT EARNING MORE MONEY BY DOING MORE WORK IS NOT A MORAL CRIME.
AND ALL WHO ADVISING DOCTORS, THEMSELVES RUNNING AFTER MONEY, AREN'T THEY?
*3. MYTH - DOCTORS MUST BE HUNDRED PERCENT HONEST.*
FACT- DOCTORS DO NOT COME FROM MARS OR VENUS. IF SUPREME COURT JUDGES OR ARMY GENERALS CAN BE CORRUPT, SO CAN A FEW DOCTORS. AS A CLASS, THEY ARE STILL BETTER THAN POLITICIANS, BUREAUCRATS, LAWYERS, POLICE OR PSU ENGINEERS.
*4. MYTH - MOST OF THE TIME, DOCTORS DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE DISEASE AND WRITE UNNECESSARY AND COSTLY DRUGS AND ADVISE TESTS AND TREAT ON A TRIAL BASIS.*
FACT- DOCTOR PATIENT RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ON TRUST, IF YOU DO NOT TRUST YOUR DOCTOR, GO TO ANOTHER ONE. MEDICAL SCIENCE IS A LIFE LONG LEARNING PROCESS, AND ALL TREATMENT, TO SOME EXTENT IS BASED ON TRIAL AND ERROR. THE SAME MEDICINE, WHICH WORKS FOR ONE PATIENT MAY NOT WORK ON ANOTHER.
SECOND, THE RESPONSIBILITY OF PROVIDING QUALITY DRUGS AT AFFORDABLE PRICES LIES NOT WITH THE DOCTOR, BUT WITH THE STATE AUTHORITIES, JUST LIKE PROVIDING FOR BETTER ROADS, UNADULTERATED QUALITY FOOD AND DAIRY PRODUCTS, UNINTERRUPTED POWER AND WATER SUPPLY ETC AND ETC. LIKE CLOTHS, CARS AND MOBILE PHONES, COSTLY DRUGS ARE GENERALLY BETTER THAN CHEAP ONES. HOWEVER, IF THE GOVERNMENT MAKES IT MANDATORY TO WRITE GENERICS, IT SHOULD ENSURE QUALITY AND THE CONSEQUENCE OF POOR/NON EFFICACY SHOULD NOT BE BLAMED ON DOCTORS.
THIRD, TESTS ARE DONE FOR PATIENT’S OWN SAFETY. JUST LIKE WEARING A HELMET OR SEAT BELT, INVESTIGATIONS INCREASE THE SAFETY. MOST OF THE DOCTORS IN INDIA ARE TRAINED TO WORK ON CLINICAL HUNCH AND COMMON SENSE AND NOT RELY TOO MUCH ON TESTS, AND ADVISE MUCH LESS TESTS THAN WHAT IS ACTUALLY WRITTEN IN THE BOOK OR DONE IN THE DEVELOPED WORLD.
*5. MYTH - TREATMENT COSTS ARE INCREASING IRRATIONALLY*.
FACT- COMPARED TO WESTERN WORLD, TREATMENT COSTS IN INDIA ARE STILL VERY LOW, AND MANY FOREIGNERS ARE COMING HERE FOR THIS REASON. AND IT WOULD BE WORTHWHILE TO THINK ABOUT ANY OTHER SERVICE OR PRODUCT WITH AS RAPID ADVANCEMENT IN TECHNOLOGY AND EQUIPMENT AS MEDICAL SCIENCE, WHOSE COST IS NOT INCREASING
*6. MYTH - DOCTORS ARE NEXT TO GOD*..
FACT - DOCTORS ARE AS HUMAN AS CAN BE. THEY ALSO GET TIRED, FALL SICK, HAVE FAMILY COMMITMENTS, GET UPSET AND STRESSED SOMETIMES AND CAN SUFFER FROM ALL THE FRAILTIES OF A HUMAN BEING. IF ANYONE WANTED TO BE TREATED BY GOD THEN THEY CAN VISIT THE TEMPLE..
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મંગળવાર, 8 ઑક્ટોબર, 2019
Dark side of being a doctor
WHAT IS THE DARK SIDE OF BEING A DOCTOR IN INDIA
"Loneliness"
Profound loneliness. You can be surrounded by friends, family and colleagues, but in reality, you are quite alone.
If your family does not consist of doctors, they hardly understand the difficulties that you go through. They sympathize with you, yet are unable to grasp the reality of your training and career. Why you must spend days and weeks and even years apart from them. Why a lot of their calls are unanswered by you, while you are busy during rounds or managing patients.
Your old school friends do not really understand how hard the years have been. Why you couldn't attend all the weddings you were called to. Some just attribute it to arrogance. Some understand. Only a few are driven enough to maintain a relationship where you hardly meet, talk or hang out. Nobody realizes that you hardly have time for yourself, leave alone the closest of friends.
When you do meet your old buddies, from various different fields, you can feel a fence that has formed around you. You smile, and nod your head. Yet, you are some distance away. The conversations seem a bit trivial compared to what goes on everyday in your other life. It is like viewing the rerurn of a tv show you had loved at some point of time.
Your college friends don't stay with you for too long. Forever branching and specializing fields of medicine mean everyone either ends up in a different college, City or country eventually. You do drop each other a message once in a while, especially if you can remember who it is that you are missing. Conversations do not progress beyond a few words, as both of you are busy beyond compare. Time and distances lighten the strongest of bonds.
Your partner/spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend understands your trials and tribulations with difficulty. A similar profession leads to conflict, ego struggles and comparisons. A different profession causes irritation and indignation at your personal priorities. You keep training and hardly find time for them.
Your patients may love you for your bedside manner and clinical acumen but neither do you form friendships nor expect any support in times of trouble. You keep a distance. Always. Proximity causes lack of objectivity. *And, patients rarely come out in open support of their physician.*
Your colleagues in the same branch view you as competition. So much so that they would be secretly relieved to see you fail. You colleagues in other branches form cordial, friendly relations. You meet once a year for joint conferences and sometimes discuss patients which have been referred. *You can expect a bit of professional support but nothing emotional or personal.*
The hospital you work in couldn't care less about you. You are indispensable to them, until you are replaced.
Not all this is true for everyone in all scenarios, but, yes, you learn to live with this reality.
Add to this the constant fear of litigation, abuse, violence and disciplinary action.
*It can get very lonely at the top for doctors sometimes. And the higher you go, the further away you are from everyone.*
If this is not part of your story, being a doctor, you really are blessed.
સોમવાર, 10 ડિસેમ્બર, 2018
You are replaceable
You are replaceable
_____________________
He graduated to be the best and finest surgeon in the world. At age 30, he got married.
The joy of marrying a medical doctor attracted Bisi, his wife, to him.
After a few weeks leave from work, he hardly spent time with his wife.
Their relationship began to go sour.
Not that he's flirting around with other ladies and not that he now has a bad friend at his work place, he was seen as TOO IMPORTANT.
Every patient wants him. The nurses love him to handle all the surgeries at hand.
One day, he got home very early from work. The wife was glad that he was at least early today. Just as he was dropping his briefcase, his phone rang and the following conversation went on.
Nurse: Sir, we need you now at the hospital. We have an emergency.
Tunde: I'm on my way.
The wife was angry with him. As usual, he told her "Sorry".
This went on for so long.
But one unfortunate day, he had an accident. And....
He died!
The other doctors and surgeons mourned him. They gave his wife cash to take care of herself.
But can money replace love? You know the answer...
Not too long after the wife went to that same hospital for some check up, she was shocked to see someone in her husband's former post. Not only that, she heard someone calling the new surgeon as the best in that town.
She wept bitterly...
*Do you know you are replaceable*?
*Do you know you are NOT too important*?
*Do you know someone else can do better than what you are doing or what you can do*?
*Do you know you are cherished now just because you can still perform your rite*?
*Do you know you are celebrated because you are available and useful*?
*No one's saying you should not help out*.
*No one's saying you should be selfish*.
*BUT*,
*Take time to rest*.
*Take time to relax*.
*Spend time with family*
*As bitter as those truths, many of you fail to accept that*...
*Tread softly*... *Go gently*...
VALUE YOUR FAMILY, FRIENDS, KEEP THEM IN PRIORITIES AND SPEND TIME WITH THEM .
*Enjoy your life too !*
શનિવાર, 24 નવેમ્બર, 2018
Medical profession a good angle
Hi friends,
🖕The slide 'Wrong Culture' is an eye opener...
Who ever has penned it... those super ideas need profuse compliments ...
It seriously applies Especially to yonger generations of specialists and super specialists.
Each sentence is more powerful than previous one.
Let's follow this sincerely.
Forward it to all doctor friends acoss india.
Remember, only change is permanent !!
With 34 years of medical practice in India , that too returning after 7 years of stay in UK, I am probably in a convenient position to suggest certain measures to save OUR SKIN FIRST!
Look After urself well...
U r the only hope for ur FAMILY socially, financially, morally etc.
Don't compromise on quality of your work and maintain sincerity with compassion. at all times...
But in the process,
DO URSELF A FAVOUR and control Sacrificial nature.!!!!!
When things go wrong, the same patient and relatives screw up your happiness and some doctors have paid heavy price!
Stop torturing urself in the name of noble service!!
Rest adequately..
Overtired brain and exhausted physical strength has led to serious mistakes especially when trying to prove one upmanship!!
Methodical scheduled work is never tiring..
No body ever died of hard work..but in our profession unscheduled prolonged working hours are common.So think twice before accepting patients. Supreme court fortunately allows you to refuse patients except under certain emergencies.
'Low fees' competition is most nauseating!!! Practiced mainly in interventional work and surgeries.
Giving concession to poor deserving cases is different from low fee crooked game !
Inhuman working hours don't mean don't handle emergencies...It means schedule other routine sensibly..Don't be heroic to impress calleagues and patients..
Some Top surgeons have died at operating table!!!
Though death is hanging sword for all of us, we need to take sensible care of ourselves, ..!
Take care....
U r precious.....
રવિવાર, 7 ઑક્ટોબર, 2018
Myths and facts of medical practice
''MYTHS AND FACTS OF MEDICAL PRACTICE''
*1. MYTH - MEDICAL PROFESSION IS A NOBLE PROFESSION*..
FACT- EVERY PROFESSION, WHETHER OF A TEACHER, SOLDIER, TAILOR OR SHOPKEEPER, IS NOBLE, IF DONE WITH SINCERITY AND INTEGRITY.
*A CARELESS DOCTOR CAN KILL ONE**, A CARELESS DRIVER CAN KILL DOZENS, A CARELESS ENGINEER CAN KILL HUNDREDS..
*2. MYTH - AS IT IS A SERVICE TO HUMANITY, DOCTORS SHOULD NOT RUN AFTER MONEY*.
FACT - MONEY IS AN IMPORTANT MEASURE OF SUCCESS. RUNNING AFTER IT IS NOT GOOD FOR ANYBODY, BUT EARNING MORE MONEY BY DOING MORE WORK IS NOT A MORAL CRIME.
AND ALL WHO ADVISING DOCTORS, THEMSELVES RUNNING AFTER MONEY, AREN'T THEY?
*3. MYTH - DOCTORS MUST BE HUNDRED PERCENT HONEST.*
FACT- DOCTORS DO NOT COME FROM MARS OR VENUS. IF SUPREME COURT JUDGES OR ARMY GENERALS CAN BE CORRUPT, SO CAN A FEW DOCTORS. AS A CLASS, THEY ARE STILL BETTER THAN POLITICIANS, BUREAUCRATS, LAWYERS, POLICE OR PSU ENGINEERS.
*4. MYTH - MOST OF THE TIME, DOCTORS DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE DISEASE AND WRITE UNNECESSARY AND COSTLY DRUGS AND ADVISE TESTS AND TREAT ON A TRIAL BASIS.*
FACT- DOCTOR PATIENT RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ON TRUST, IF YOU DO NOT TRUST YOUR DOCTOR, GO TO ANOTHER ONE. MEDICAL SCIENCE IS A LIFE LONG LEARNING PROCESS, AND ALL TREATMENT, TO SOME EXTENT IS BASED ON TRIAL AND ERROR. THE SAME MEDICINE, WHICH WORKS FOR ONE PATIENT MAY NOT WORK ON ANOTHER.
SECOND, THE RESPONSIBILITY OF PROVIDING QUALITY DRUGS AT AFFORDABLE PRICES LIES NOT WITH THE DOCTOR, BUT WITH THE STATE AUTHORITIES, JUST LIKE PROVIDING FOR BETTER ROADS, UNADULTERATED QUALITY FOOD AND DAIRY PRODUCTS, UNINTERRUPTED POWER AND WATER SUPPLY ETC AND ETC. LIKE CLOTHS, CARS AND MOBILE PHONES, COSTLY DRUGS ARE GENERALLY BETTER THAN CHEAP ONES. HOWEVER, IF THE GOVERNMENT MAKES IT MANDATORY TO WRITE GENERICS, IT SHOULD ENSURE QUALITY AND THE CONSEQUENCE OF POOR/NON EFFICACY SHOULD NOT BE BLAMED ON DOCTORS.
THIRD, TESTS ARE DONE FOR PATIENT’S OWN SAFETY. JUST LIKE WEARING A HELMET OR SEAT BELT, INVESTIGATIONS INCREASE THE SAFETY. MOST OF THE DOCTORS IN INDIA ARE TRAINED TO WORK ON CLINICAL HUNCH AND COMMON SENSE AND NOT RELY TOO MUCH ON TESTS, AND ADVISE MUCH LESS TESTS THAN WHAT IS ACTUALLY WRITTEN IN THE BOOK OR DONE IN THE DEVELOPED WORLD.
*5. MYTH - TREATMENT COSTS ARE INCREASING IRRATIONALLY*.
FACT- COMPARED TO WESTERN WORLD, TREATMENT COSTS IN INDIA ARE STILL VERY LOW, AND MANY FOREIGNERS ARE COMING HERE FOR THIS REASON. AND IT WOULD BE WORTHWHILE TO THINK ABOUT ANY OTHER SERVICE OR PRODUCT WITH AS RAPID ADVANCEMENT IN TECHNOLOGY AND EQUIPMENT AS MEDICAL SCIENCE, WHOSE COST IS NOT INCREASING
*6. MYTH - DOCTORS ARE NEXT TO GOD*..
FACT - DOCTORS ARE AS HUMAN AS CAN BE. THEY ALSO GET TIRED, FALL SICK, HAVE FAMILY COMMITMENTS, GET UPSET AND STRESSED SOMETIMES AND CAN SUFFER FROM ALL THE FRAILTIES OF A HUMAN BEING. IF ANYONE WANTED TO BE TREATED BY GOD THEN THEY CAN VISIT THE TEMPLE..
બુધવાર, 3 ઑક્ટોબર, 2018
Know your doctor
તમારા ડોક્ટરને ઓળખો! (Dr v s c).
રીડર ડાયજેસ્ટની જુલાઈ 17ની ઈંગ્લીશ આવૃત્તિમાં ડો અભય શુક્લ અને ડો અરુણ ગદ્રે દ્વારા એક આર્ટીલક પબ્લિશડ થયેલ હતો. ડાયેજેસ્ટના અંકમાં પ્રકાશિત થયેલ " હાઉ ટુ રેક્ગનાઇઝ એ ટ્ર્સ્ટવર્ધી ડોક્ટર" માં ડો શુક્લ અને ગદ્રેએ પોતના અનુભવો અને દર્દીઓને પડતી હાડમારીનું આલેખન કરેલ. તેમના કહેવા પ્રમાણે,' ધ મોસ્ટ ઈમ્પોર્ટન્ટ એસિમેટ્રી બિટ્વીન એ ડોક્ટર એન્ડ પેશન્ટ ઇસ 'એસિમેટ્રી ઓફ નૉલેજ'. યસ ધેય આર રાઈટ. દવા અને દર્દ બાબત મોટાભાગના લોકોમાં અજ્ઞાનતા જોવા મળે છે.
સારા નિષ્ણાત, એથિકલ કે ટ્ર્સ્ટવર્ધી ડોક્ટર ને ઓળખવા શું કરવું?
1. એથિકલ અને સમજદાર ડોક્ટર કોઈ દિવસ તમોને બીવડાવશે નહીં.
ઘણીવાર નિદાન કે સારવારમાં મેડિકલ પ્રોફેશન દ્વારા એક જાતનો ફિયર કે પેનિક ઉભું કરવામાં આવે છે. આનંદ પિક્ચરનો બહુ ચર્ચિત ડાઈલોગ છે,"ડર નહીં પેદા કરૂંગા તો દવા કેઈસે બેચૂંગા " .
2. કોઈપણ વ્યક્તિ સર્વગુણ સમ્પન નથી હોતી.
કોઈ ડોક્ટર કહે કે 'મને બધું આવડે જ છે અને અને હું 'માસ્ટર ઓફ ઓલ' છું તો ધ્યાન રાખવું. એથિકલ ડોક્ટર કોઈ દિવસ એમ નહીં કહે કે 'આઈ નો એવરીથીંગ' ઘણીવાર ડોક્ટરને પણ ખબર નથી હોતી કે આ તકલીફનું કારણ શું છે કે સારવારથી કેવું રિઝલ્ટ આવશે. 'યસ હી વીલ ટેલ', મને આવું લાગે છે અને પ્રયત્ન કરું છું. બધા ડોક્ટરોને બધું આવડે એ જરૂરી નથી અને બધા દર્દીઓ સજા થઈ જાય એ પણ શક્ય નથી. આજકાલ મેડિકલ સાયન્સમાં રોજ નવું નવું ડેવલપ થતું જાય છે. બધા ડોકટરો માટે બધી સ્પેશિયાલિટી નું નવું ડેવલપમેન્ટ જાણવું હમેશા શક્ય નથી હોતું.
3. બિન જરૂરી તપાસ કે ઇન્વેસ્ટિગેશન.
ઘણા દર્દીઓ ને કોસ્ટ્લી અને ઘણા બધા ટેસ્ટ ન કરવો ત્યાં સુધી મજા નથી આવતી. આવા દર્દીઓ માને છે કે વધુ રિપોટ્ર્સ કરવાથી પાકું નિદાન થાય. સાચું અને ટ્ર્સ્ટવર્ધી ડોક્ટર દર્દીની આવી ડિમાન્ડ સાથે સહમત થતો નથી અને તેને જરૂર લાગે તેટલા જ રિપોટ્ર્સ કરવાની સલાહ આપે છે.
4.આપણો ડોક્ટર ડેરિંગ વાળો હોય તો કેવું?
યસ, બધાને ઇમર્જન્સીમાં લાઈફ સેવિંગ સારવાર જોઈ છે. હમેશા યાદ રહે તમારો ડોક્ટર અડધી રાતે ઇમર્જન્સીમાં તમોને ટ્રીટ કરે કે આવી તાત્કાલિક સારવારની વ્યવસ્થા કરી આપે તો આવા ડોક્ટરનો ભરોસો કરો અને તેની સાથે જોડાયેલા રહો. અણી ચુક્યો સો વર્ષ જીવે એમ ડોકટરો આવી સારવાર આપી ઘણાની જિંદગી બચાવી લેતા હોય છે અને બાદ માં દર્દીઓ વર્ષો સુધી જીવતા હોય છે.
5. એડવાન્સ ઈન મેડિકલ સાયન્સ.
દુનિયા કુદકેને ભૂસકે એડવાન્સ થતી જાય છે. લોકો નેટ સર્ફ કરી પોતાની કે પોતાના લવ વન ની તકલીફો વિશેની માહિતી ગુગલ ઉપરથી મેળવતા હોય છે. આવી ઇન્ફોર્મેશન હમેશા કમલીટ કે સાચી નથી હોતી. 'વન સાઈઝ કેન નોટ ફિટ ટુ ઓલ'. મતલબ કે એક સરખો રોગ જુદી જુદી વ્યક્તિમાં જુદા જુદા રૂપે દેખાતો હોય છે. આવા રોગોની નેટ પર લખેલી સારવાર બધાને માફક આવતી નથી કે ફાયદો થતો નથી. આપણું શરીર એક કોમ્લેક્સ સ્ટ્રક્ચર છે. (Dr V S Chandarana).
ગુરુવાર, 14 જૂન, 2018
Doctor a miraculous healer,
A Doctor's Sacred Obligation
© Dr. Rajas Deshpande
As I entered the hospital for my evening OPD, I saw our senior-most cardiologist standing by his plush big car in front of the entrance. A tall, calm and brilliant man with a reputation that many only dream of, he never spoke about himself or his work. It was very unusual, because he was either with patients or walking fast, never still like this.
Curiously, as I wished him, I couldn’t resist asking, “Anything up, Sir?”. He asked me to look at the entrance. A young lady in her twenties was coming out of the hospital, supported by her relatives, smiling and crying at the same time. As she climbed into the car that was waiting for her, she saw the cardiologist and tried to get out again. But Sir asked her to wait, went there, wished her just as her relatives touched his feet one by one, and bid her a goodbye. As they shifted her luggage in the trunk, Sir told me: “That is our 10th heart transplant case. She had come with heart failure that could not be treated, there was no hope for her survival except if she received a new heart. That was a month ago. We performed a heart transplant upon her, with consent for a risk of death on the operating table. I can’t tell you how I feel today, seeing her walk out with a new heart. I am not sure how many people have the ability to grasp this event. It is so much more than a new birth!” © Dr. Rajas Deshpande
The patient’s car rolled away slowly, the relatives folded their hands at the sky. Our dear cardiologist looked at the sky once too, sat in his enviable car and drove away with a winner’s smile.
Late that night after OPD, as I waited at the entrance watching the beautiful rain, I felt a certain calm within. Hundreds of specialist and super specialist doctors in India perform super-complicated procedures, surgeries, transplants every day in India. Some bring back most hopeless patients in coma with their sheer medical talent. Thousands of ultra-critical patients walk out of the intensive/ critical care units. Heart, Liver, Kidney transplants are happening every day, almost in all bigger cities. Joint replacements and spinal surgeries have made miraculous changes in the quality of life of millions those who would have otherwise spent last few decades of their life writhing in a bed. Most Neurological conditions can now be effectively treated to improve both lifespan and quality of life. Complicated brain tumors can be removed, aneurysms treated, many cancers cured, and paralysis reversed if treated in time. Physiotherapy makes dramatic changes in mobility of those who couldn’t even stand.
Where is all this happening? Who is doing this? What is their reward?
Most of these expertises, skills were brought to India by the private doctors who went abroad to study on their own. Most of these facilities were made possible in India by the private hospitals because they earned profits. If they didn’t, no one would invest. It is impossible for the government to invest in healthcare to this extent. Even in the rare govt. set-ups where such facilities are available, they came in too late, with many compromises, and only because some doctors there wanted to extend the benefits to the poorest of the poor, and tried hard to convince the health departments for development of such facilities. The government never spends on advanced (out of the country) education of any doctor. © Dr. Rajas Deshpande. Yet, most people imagine that when a doctor goes abroad for any conference, it is to have fun. How cheap and conceited to look down upon the saviors of so many lives!
Our politicians and leaders, media and society have always made ungrateful and derogatory comments about us. Still, the ultimate truth shines bright: that the geniuses in this profession continue to bring highest class of medical care to India, both in private and government hospitals. They do so because of their own drive: to explore, to excel and to bestow health upon millions. © Dr. Rajas Deshpande. Yes, some such doctors earn very well too, most of them earn via clean practice, pay their taxes, and still treat many patients free.
However our society has almost made up its mind that a doctor should never become rich.
The utopian, hypocritical notion that doctors should only be happy with the satisfaction and blessings of people they treat, without expecting financial remuneration is as laughable as saying that everyone else right from the politicians to artists or the laborers should also be happy with what they do and should not expect any remuneration. Everyone earns for their work, and so should a doctor. © Dr. Rajas Deshpande
No one will achieve anything good by merely criticizing the very profession that strives hard to save lives. The psychotic addiction some people have, of speaking ill about doctors is based upon a single reality: they want free / low cost treatment of highest quality. There indeed are a few corrupt doctors, but how fair is it to blame all others who do so much for the society?
Our society indeed needs a new, repaired and loving heart for the great doctors who bring it health and life! This 'transplant' is being delayed by the puny shortsighted politicos and media who belittle their own saviors. It is high time that at least the educated and intelligent among the society recognize this.
Till then, we will still try and keep your old heart beating well, for we are doctors, and even if you criticise us, we must only do good to you. That sacred obligation is the nobility of my profession!
© Dr. Rajas Deshpande
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મંગળવાર, 1 મે, 2018
Madhuvan ni Mahek
“રોજી ક્યારેય ભાડાની નથી હોતી”- એ રીક્ષાવાળાએ મારું દિલ જીતી લીધું
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મધુવનની મહેકઃ ડો. સંતોષ દેવકર
‘એ…… રીક્ષા….! ‘
‘કિધર જાના હૈ?’
‘કાલા ઘોડા ‘
‘બૈઠો… !’
‘કિતના લોગે?’
‘મીટર જો બતાયેગા વહીં’
અઠવાડિયા પહેલાં વડોદરા જવાનું થયેલું. વડોદરામાં કાલા ઘોડા એક જાણીતું સ્થળ છે. યુનિવર્સિટીની બિલકુલ નજીક. રીક્ષામાં બેઠો તો જોયું કે રીક્ષા ફુલ્લી સજાવેલી હતી. બેસવાનું મન થાય તેવી. રીક્ષામાં એક ગમતી મહેક આવી રહી હતી. ધીમું સંગીત પણ ચાલતું હતું.
‘ઠંડું લેશો કે ગરમ ‘ રીક્ષાવાળાએ પૂછયું.
‘કેમ ?’ મને આશ્ચર્ય થયું.
રિક્ષામાં ભાઈએ ચા અને લીંબુ શરબતના બે મોટા થરમોસ ભરીને રાખેલા. દરેક પેસેન્જરને ડિસ્પોઝેબલ ગ્લાસમાં ઓફર કરે. પીવડાવે-ફરજિયાત. મને આશ્ચર્ય થયું.
‘આ ચા-શરબતના પૈસા વધારાના આપવાના?’
‘ ના… સાહેબ…. તમારે જે ભાડું થાય તે જ આપવાનું આ ફેસિલિટીતો મારા તરફ્થી છે.’
મને આનંદ થયો અને આશ્ચર્ય પણ. મેં કહ્યું, ‘ભાઈ, તારી જ રીક્ષામાં બેસવાનું અને ફરવાનું ગમે એવું લાગે છે.’
‘એમ જ થાય છે સાહેબ, એકવાર જે બેસે છે પછી તે મને જ યાદ કરે છે.’
‘તને ખોટ નથી જતી?’
‘અરે સાહેબ, જયારથી આ ફેસિલિટી શરૂ કરી છે ત્યારથી દર વર્ષે મારી આવક બમણી થાય છે. હું નવરો પડતો જ નથી. પેસેન્જર મને ફોન કરીને બોલાવે છે.’
રીક્ષામાં ડ્રાઈવરનું નામ, ફોટો, સરનામું અને ફોન નંબર લખેલું હતું ત્યાં મારી નજર પડી.
મેં મનોમન વિચાર્યું. આટલી કાળઝાળ ગરમીમાં એક ગ્લાસ લીંબુ શરબત મળે અને દુલ્હન જેવી શણગારેલી રીક્ષામાં બેસવાનું મળે પછી જોઈએ શું?
‘રીક્ષા ભાડાની છે કે પોતાની?’
‘તમને શું લાગે છે?’ એણે વળતો સવાલ કર્યો.
‘શણગારેલી રીક્ષા છે. તમારી પોતાની જ હોવી જોઈએ!’
‘ના… સાહેબ, રીક્ષા ભાડાની છે.
આ મારી રોજીરોટી છે, આજીવિકા કયારેય ભાડાની કે પારકી નથી હોતી. એને તો જાતની જેમ જાળવવાની હોય…. આ રીક્ષા મારા પૂરા પરિવારને જાળવે છે. રોજી આપે છે. મારે એને જાળવવાની જ હોય. ન જાળવું તો નગુણો કહેવાઉં.’
મને રીક્ષાવાળા માટે માન ઉપજયું. રીક્ષા અને તેના વિચારો બંને ગમી જાય તેવા હતા. રોજીરોટી મળે તે સ્થાનને પવિત્ર ગણવું પછી ભલે તે ભાડાનું કેમ ન હોય! એ રીક્ષા હોય, મકાન હોય કે પછી પોતાનું શરીર હોય! બધું જ ભાડાનું છે. પરંતુ તેને સાચવવું શણગારવું, ગમે તેવું બનાવવું, તેને પ્રેમ કરવો અને છતાં માલિકીપણાનો ભાવ ન આવે તેનું પણ ધ્યાન રાખવું. વાહ… અદ્ભુત… મજા પડી ગઈ.
મેં કહ્યું ભાઈ….. મને હવે વડોદરાના જોવાલાયક સ્થળો પણ બતાવ… તારી જ રીક્ષામાં ફરવું છે આજે. રીક્ષા આગળ વધી. મેં લીંબુ શરબતનો એક ઘૂંટડો પીધો ને રીક્ષાવાળા ભાઈએ કહ્યું, ‘જુઓ સાહેબ, તમે તમારો વિચાર બદલ્યોને? બસ, આ જ મારું કામ છે. મારા ધંધાની આવક એટલે જ દર વર્ષે વધે છે. ખર્ચ કાઢતાં સોળસો-સત્તરસો રોજ ઘરે લઈ જાઉં છું.’
મેં હકારમાં માથું હલાવ્યું એણે આગળ ચલાવ્યું.
‘હું એમ. એ., બી.એડ્. છું, સાહેબ !
બી. એડ્.માં મારા સાહેબે કીધેલું કે જીવનમાં કોઈ કામ હલકું કે નીચું નથી. ભણ્યા પછી નોકરી મળે કે ન મળે નાસીપાસ નહિ થવાનું. બૂટપોલીશ કરો, ડ્રાઈવિંગ કરો કે ચાની કિટલી ચલાવો,પકોડા વેચો, પરંતુ પ્રમાણિકતા અને નિષ્ઠા ટકાવી રાખજો. સખત પરિશ્રમ તમારો આત્મવિશ્વાસ વધારશે. સંસારમાં આવતા પરિવર્તનને સહર્ષ સ્વીકારજો. ગ્રાહક અને આવક સતત વધતાજ રહેશે.’
રીક્ષાવાળાના મોઢેથી સાંભળેલા અદ્ભુત વાકયો મને બ્રહ્મજ્ઞાનના નીતરતા નીર જેવાં લાગ્યાં. હું આજીવન પેસેન્જર બની ગયો હતો. હું મનોમન રીક્ષાવાળાને વંદી રહ્યો.
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મુખવાસ
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‘પરિવર્તન કયારેય પણ પીડાદાયક નથી હોતું
પણ પરિવર્તનનો વિરોધજ પીડાદાયક હોય છે.દિકરી સાસરે સુખી કે દુ:ખી એટલેજ હોય છે’
-ભગવાન બુદ્ધ